There are certain things a girl can say to make a man think, “she pays attention to me.” By being observant and remembering details about him, she shows that she is interested in him as a person, not just as someone she wants something from. By pointing out things that contradict others’ think, she shows that she has taken the time to get to know him and values his opinion.
The following are seven things a girl can say to make a man think “she pays attention to me”:
1. You told him you noticed his new hairstyle: “You cut your hair, didn’t you?”
You show that you paid attention to him when he changed his hairstyle and that you like the new look. It will make him feel good about himself and appreciate that you took the time to notice the change.
2. You talk about his earlier clothes: “I like that red sweater you wore last time.”
This shows that you were paying attention to what he wore and liked it. Complimenting his sense of style will make him feel good about himself, and I appreciate that you took the time to notice his outfit.
3. You notice his health: “You seem tired. Are you okay?”
It shows that you are concerned about his well-being and want to ensure he is taking care of himself. He’ll appreciate your concern and feel good knowing you care about his health.
4. You notice any changes in appearance: “Have you lost weight?”
This shows that you were paying attention to his appearance and noticed when he made a change. Even if this is not true, the man will still be pleased that you see positive changes in him. Then he will try harder because he understands he cannot lag that you are interested in him.
5. Do you remember past conversations?
This shows that you were paying attention to him during conversations and that you remember what he said. It is especially true in essential conversations about the past (something related to childhood) or about the future (his plans). He will appreciate that you remember such things about him and his thoughts.
6. You remember his hobbies and likes: “I remember you don’t like coffee.”
This shows that you listened to him when he talked about his hobbies and likes. If he tells you he doesn’t like coffee, and you remember this, you can bring him a cup without sugar or make a note to avoid ordering coffee when you’re with him. It shows that you were listening to him and caring about his preferences.
7. You point out things about him that contradict what others think.
“With people, you are one, but with me, you are different, and I see it” – the thought you will convey to him will lift him to heaven.
It shows that you have taken the time to understand and value his opinion. He’ll appreciate that you see him as an individual with his thoughts and feelings and not just as someone who conforms to what others think.
She can make him feel special and appreciated by taking the time to notice small details about the guy.
It can be easy to overlook the little things when you’re caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. But taking the time to notice small details about the guy you’re interested in will make him feel special and appreciated.
What are some things you can say to make a guy feel special?
